My boyfriend is begging for a group sex

Dear Bunmi,

My current boyfriend is a real charmer and I get on well with his friends. A few nights back, we all went out together to a night club and there was some harmless dirty dancing.

Since the guys brought their own girlfriends, there weren’t any bad feelings. Only now my boyfriend has this crazy idea that we should have group sex with some of his friends. He said he’s tried it before and it was not a big deal.

What do you think?

Angel, by e-mail.

Dear Angel,

You’d be out of your mind to even consider it. This whole thing suggests your boyfriend is far more concerned with having a bit of fun than developing a loving caring relationship with you.

He’s much more interested in being good to his friends than considering what you want.

As for his happy-go-lucky friends, they’d see you as an easy meat if you succumb.

So say a firm no. If you still want to see this man after the suggestion he’s made, see him without this bunch of friends hanging around.

And if he or his friends come up with another bright idea, run a mile.